Monday, March 8, 2010

Back on course...ish

All "Brady's" survived the trip.

My kids and his kids got along very well. Which really was no surprise. I'd say the only time things with the kids were iffy is when they were tuckered out.

The wrestling tournament didn't go so well for his kids, but hopefully something was learned and they can take the matches as experience under their belts for the next year.

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Three cheering on the other...

The only problem with the trip was me.

I created problems where there didn't need to be any.

Self sabotage? Quite possible.

PMS? Maybe a little.

No matter the issue, it was only a minor bump in the road for this relationship. Not an impassable bump, just a knock ya off kilter a little bump. Easily maneuvered back on track.

If I could get my brain and heart on the same page I think things would be a lot easier.

If anyone has some help on getting those two on the course, I'd love to hear it.

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  1. Glad to hear it went pretty well. It must be tough to mingle your kids with his since this a new situation for all of them but sounds like all went well. I know what you mean about self sabotoge. I have been married to Melinda for 9 years this July and I still sabotoge myself. Not sure why. Hope everything continues to go well.
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  2. I think we all tend to do that some what. The trick is finding someone that overlooks it and doesn't allow it to happen. I speak from experience.
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  3. I don't have any advice because I constantly sabotaged myself. But this Mr. Fantastic seems to see right through you, and that is what it finally took for me!
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  4. The thing that I find is when we back off and let things unfold without forcing it "my way" everything goes SOOOOOO much smoother. From kids interacting with each other to your lovelife, just let it flow. I know! It is SO much easier to type that out than actually do - I suck at following my own advice.
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  5. I think the brain and heart in alignment comes from balance. I am aware of what my heart tells me but that is tempered by my thinking. I used to be run by feelings which sent me careening. I am much more in balance these days.
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  6. do the brain and heart ever agree? whichever one is talking the loudest is the one i would follow, i guess.
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  7. Booze.

    Just kidding. I think the stress of wanting it to work probably did you in. You'll relax as it goes on. :)
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  8. Only time will help you with these issues, dear. Don't over work your brain on things you may not have control over. Enjoy the ride, not the destination. : )
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  9. Doesn't it suck when the guy peaks too early?

    HA,
    and if you don't know what I am talking about then you are not as big of a fan as I thought!
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C'mon, pull up a therapy couch and tell me all about it...