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It only took one visit to your blog for me to be h...

2009-11-17T21:06:52.147-06:00

It only took one visit to your blog for me to be hooked too. Sounds like this is your fault to me. Quit being awesome, witty, and funny and I'm sure the problems will go away.

Seriously though. Tell him to take his attachment issues back to his mommy (assuming she's alive, of course).

See you're irresistible! I think it hilarious ...

2009-11-17T18:49:17.527-06:00

See you're irresistible! I think it hilarious even though it HAS to be massively annoying.

Good answer. And I'm really sorry to hear abo...

2009-11-17T07:11:00.309-06:00

Good answer. And I'm really sorry to hear about this stress.

There's something for you at Stir-Fry. Smooc...

2009-11-17T05:20:15.729-06:00

There's something for you at Stir-Fry.

Smooches!

I went through this with Bubba and Katie's dad...

2009-11-16T18:52:23.940-06:00

I went through this with Bubba and Katie's dad. The only thing skivvier than what your ex is doing is having your ex hit on you hot and heavy. EWWW! He finally got the point when I quit acknowledging his advances at all..no negative feedback, just nothing. Srsly, some men are stupid and hardheaded.

You need to talk to your family ASAP and nip that shit in the bud. Nothing worse

Good God

2009-11-16T08:40:56.556-06:00

Good God

Oh lordy. Someone didn't get the memo apparen...

2009-11-16T01:19:16.014-06:00

Oh lordy. Someone didn't get the memo apparently. Ex#2 still wants ya. *nod*

I am sorry but I did giggle. I can just picture y...

2009-11-15T22:20:46.854-06:00

I am sorry but I did giggle. I can just picture you getting all pissed, lol.
Forgive me I will read this once again in the morning after I haven't been in the car for 21 hours and well rested and then I will be ticked right along with you, jerk!

I am guessing it's a wants what he can no long...

2009-11-15T21:55:21.659-06:00

I am guessing it's a wants what he can no longer have sort of situation. Stick to your guns. Divorce is done. And you mean it!

some people don't know what they have until it...

2009-11-15T18:03:33.628-06:00

some people don't know what they have until it's not theirs anymore...

hopefully things will chill soon.

ok well the bright side is that you can somewhat l...

2009-11-15T15:37:48.190-06:00

ok well the bright side is that you can somewhat laugh and see the craziness in this behaviour...the bad news is that you have to even deal with this crazy behaviour.
You must be too inviting...a nice trait to have..except when it comes to a ex with obvious low self esteem.
Smile your way through the holidays...I'm sure alot of people do that (I know I do!)

Exes are idiots. My sisters is now engaged again b...

2009-11-15T15:29:51.021-06:00

Exes are idiots. My sisters is now engaged again but still asking her to move back in??? Maybe if you weren't such a jackass you wouldn't have to deal with all this now? I am surprised you are even entertaining the idea of letting him come Christmas morning at all, whether or not he goes later. I would say fine, but then I get the kids Christmas Eve, and open most of the presents then.

For all you have to put up with, I've just giv...

2009-11-15T10:29:54.155-06:00

For all you have to put up with, I've just given you an award. Seriously...love the blog.

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2009-11-15T09:31:05.216-06:00

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Suckage! he's not playing the X roll well at a...

2009-11-14T19:40:25.782-06:00

Suckage! he's not playing the X roll well at all!

I don't even know what to say except...I under...

2009-11-14T19:27:30.916-06:00

I don't even know what to say except...I understand about the feeling of encroaching on your time. My ex never wanted anything to do with anything before we were divorced...after? suddenly he was mr.fuckingmom. Whatever.
But after a very very long time, things have settled down...but the holidays always bring out the worst in him.
IDK- just hang in there. Making it smooth for the

Sorry, I had to delete my comment because I just w...

2009-11-14T08:08:22.666-06:00

Sorry, I had to delete my comment because I just woke up and apparently forgot how to spell, like, eight different words while I was sleeping.

Here's what it said!

Some men just can't cut the cord. However, I think if my husband and I were ever to get divorced, he would be too angry to come around. I guess children might change that.

I vow to start using

2009-11-14T08:05:58.259-06:00

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my ex had a hard time too. i think that, sometime...

2009-11-13T21:30:25.911-06:00

my ex had a hard time too. i think that, sometimes, he thinks we are still married. and i've been remarried for longer than i was with him!!

I guess I'm lucky. My ex hates me with the pas...

2009-11-13T21:24:57.654-06:00

I guess I'm lucky. My ex hates me with the passion of a thousand suns so there's no chance in hell he'd ever want to hang out with me. We had a 30 second phone conversation last night and I'm not even lying when I say that's the most (civil, audible) talking he's done to me in 3+ years without a lawyer present. The grass is always greener, Stacie! Hang in there!

What the heck? He needs a girlfriend.

2009-11-13T20:58:50.950-06:00

What the heck? He needs a girlfriend.

What kind of crazy crap is this? Regrets? Second t...

2009-11-13T19:38:54.704-06:00

What kind of crazy crap is this? Regrets? Second thoughts?

All I'm gonna say is YOU pick up the kid from ...

2009-11-13T18:56:21.742-06:00

All I'm gonna say is YOU pick up the kid from Ex#2 on Xmas morning...then get the fuck out of there. Otherwise, if he drops off he'll somehow manage to hanging out entire friggin' day with you guys...on YOUR holiday.

Looks like someone is either wanting what he can&#...

2009-11-13T17:51:57.696-06:00

Looks like someone is either wanting what he can't have or having second thoughts. Tell him to go join a book club or the Hair Club for Men or something.

You could always give him a taste of his own medicine. Just show up at his house one day while the girlfriend is there to just hang out because you're bored.

My dad used to show up uninvited all the time. My mom

Just stand firm, but remember not to become "...

2009-11-13T16:50:10.079-06:00

Just stand firm, but remember not to become "the bad guy" in the kids eyes. Not trying to put more pressure on here. My sister is going through this and has off and on for 2 years. She divorced her cheating hubs AND he's remarried and still occassionally tries to hang out, like in her bed kind of hang out. Yuck!